Should I do a head table or a sweetheart table, and how does that affect flowers?
The Short Answer
A sweetheart table seats just the couple and needs one or two focal arrangements, while a head table seats the wedding party and requires a longer floral runner or several pieces. Sweetheart tables are usually cheaper to decorate and more intimate; head tables make a grander statement but cost more.
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The core difference
A sweetheart table is a small table for just the two of you, set apart so you get a moment together and a chance to take in the room. A head table seats the full wedding party, often on one long side facing the guests. The choice is partly about the vibe you want and partly about logistics, but it has a direct effect on flowers. A sweetheart table needs far less decor to look finished, while a long head table has a lot of surface to fill.
Decorating a sweetheart table
Because it is small and highly photographed, the sweetheart table rewards a little drama in a compact footprint. A single lush focal arrangement, or a pair flanking the couple, usually does the job. Many couples add a floral swag or garland along the front edge of the table so it reads beautifully in every photo. This is also the natural home for the bridal bouquet during dinner. A sweetheart table setup commonly runs $150 to $350 in flowers, less than dressing a full head table.
Decorating a head table
A head table is essentially a very long runner to fill, so the cost climbs with the length. Options include a continuous greenery-and-bloom garland down the front, a series of low arrangements spaced along the top, or a mix of both. A smart move is standing the bridesmaid bouquets in vases along the table, which fills space for free since you already paid for those flowers. Head table florals can range widely, often $300 to $700 or more depending on length and density.
Which one is right for you?
If you love intimacy, easy photos, and a lighter flower budget, a sweetheart table is hard to beat. If you want your closest friends beside you and a bold visual anchor for the room, a head table delivers. Consider your guest count and room shape too; a very large room can make a lone sweetheart table feel small, while a head table commands the space. Bring your floor plan to the consultation and our designers will help you weigh the look against the budget.
Planning Tips From Our Designers
- Sweetheart tables cost less to decorate than full head tables.
- Repurpose bridesmaid bouquets in vases along a head table.
- Add a front-edge garland to make either table photograph well.
- Match the table choice to your room size so it does not look lost.
- Sweetheart florals run about $150 to $350; head tables $300 and up.
- Reserve the sweetheart table as the resting spot for the bridal bouquet.
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