What do lilies mean at a funeral or memorial service?
The Short Answer
Lilies are the classic funeral flower, symbolizing the restored innocence and peaceful rest of the soul that has passed. White lilies in particular convey purity and sympathy, which is why they appear in so many memorial arrangements.
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Why lilies became the flower of funerals
The lily has been tied to grief and hope for centuries. In Christian tradition the white lily represents purity and the restoration of the soul to a state of peace, which is why it so often appears at Christian services and in church altar arrangements. Beyond religion, the lily's tall, graceful form and gentle fragrance simply feel reverent. When families come to Bentley Florist unsure where to start, lilies are frequently the first flower we suggest — they carry meaning that nearly everyone recognizes, and they anchor an arrangement beautifully.
The different lilies and what they say
Not all lilies carry the same message. The stately white Oriental lily, often called the casa blanca, is the traditional emblem of peace and sympathy. Stargazer lilies, with their pink-and-white markings, add warmth and are lovely for someone who loved bold color. White calla lilies, technically a different flower, symbolize beauty and the marriage of the soul with the divine, and they lend a sleek, elegant line to sprays. Asiatic lilies come in cheerful oranges and yellows for a life that was full of energy. We help match the variety to the personality being honored.
A note on fragrance and pets
Lilies have a rich perfume that many find comforting, but it can be strong in a small room, so at an intimate home visitation we sometimes recommend a lighter hand with Oriental varieties. It is also worth knowing that true lilies are highly toxic to cats, so if flowers may end up in a home with a cat afterward, mention it and we will suggest safe alternatives like roses, alstroemeria, or lisianthus that read just as gracefully. Small considerations like these keep a kind gesture from becoming an accidental worry.
Planning Tips From Our Designers
- White Oriental lilies are the traditional symbol of peace and sympathy.
- Calla lilies bring an elegant, sculptural line to sprays.
- Stargazers add gentle color for someone who loved brightness.
- Go lighter on fragrant lilies for small, enclosed visitation rooms.
- Warn your florist if flowers may go to a home with cats.
- Expect lily-based arrangements in the $75 to $250 range for standard designs.
We're here to help you honor their memory
Our designers will guide you gently through every option, from casket sprays to sympathy arrangements for the home.
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