Should sympathy flowers be delivered to the church or the funeral home?
The Short Answer
It depends on where the service is held — send flowers to the funeral home for a visitation there, and to the church only if the funeral or memorial mass takes place at the church. Always confirm the location and the church's flower policy first.
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Follow where the service actually happens
Sympathy flowers should go wherever the gathering they are meant for takes place. If there is a visitation at the funeral home followed by a funeral mass at a church, arrangements for the viewing go to the funeral home, while altar flowers meant for the service go to the church. Many families hold everything at the funeral home, in which case that is your single destination. Checking the obituary or asking the family clears this up quickly, and the funeral director can confirm which pieces move to the church.
Churches often have their own rules
Houses of worship frequently have guidelines about flowers, especially Catholic parishes and some liturgical traditions. Some limit arrangements near the altar, prefer certain colors or simple designs, or ask that flowers arrive at a specific time before the service. During certain seasons, such as Lent, decoration may be restricted. Before sending anything to a church, call the parish office or ask the funeral director about the policy. Our designers are familiar with many area churches and can create arrangements that respect these traditions gracefully.
Coordinating the timing and handoff
When a service spans a funeral home and a church, timing takes a little planning. Confirm when the church can accept deliveries and whether flowers will later move to a graveside. In many cases the funeral home transports certain arrangements between locations, so ask who is responsible so nothing is left behind. Give your florist the church name, address, service time, and any parish instructions. With those details, we deliver to the right place at the right moment, and your tribute is present exactly where the family gathers to say goodbye.
Planning Tips From Our Designers
- Send flowers wherever the specific gathering is held.
- Viewing pieces go to the funeral home; altar flowers to the church.
- Call the parish about flower policies before sending.
- Some churches restrict flowers during seasons like Lent.
- Confirm who transports flowers between venues.
- Give your florist the church name, address, and service time.
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