How do I describe the flowers I want to a florist?
The Short Answer
Lead with the occasion, a budget, and a color or mood, then add the recipient’s style and anything to include or avoid. You do not need flower names — words like soft and romantic or bright and cheerful tell a designer exactly what to build.
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Start with feeling, not flower names
You would be amazed how far a few descriptive words carry us. Say you want something soft and romantic in blush and cream, or bold and modern in deep jewel tones, and a designer can picture the whole arrangement immediately. Most people do not know a lisianthus from a lily, and that is completely fine. We are fluent in flowers so you do not have to be. Describe the emotion you want the recipient to feel when they open the door, and we reverse-engineer the stems. That approach almost always produces something you love more than a strict shopping list would.
The details that genuinely help
A handful of specifics sharpens the design fast. Tell us the budget so we build to the right scale. Tell us the occasion, because a new-baby arrangement and a sympathy piece live in different worlds. Share the recipient’s taste if you know it — do they love wildflower looseness or clean symmetry? Note any allergies, disliked flowers, or a color to avoid, like no orange or please skip carnations. If it is going to an office versus a hospital room versus a dinner table, the size and container change. These small notes prevent the two or three misfires that could otherwise happen.
When you do have a photo
Inspiration photos are welcome, and we read them as a target rather than a contract. Show us the picture and tell us what drew your eye — the color, the shape, the airy gaps, the tight lushness. That helps us recreate the spirit even when a specific stem in the photo is out of season or unavailable that week. Be open to substitutions that hold the same look, because a photo captured in a June garden may need a smart swap in a Michigan January. Clear intent plus flexibility gets you the closest, freshest version of the image in your head.
Planning Tips From Our Designers
- Describe a mood — romantic, cheerful, elegant — before naming any flower.
- Always share a budget so the scale matches your expectations.
- Mention the occasion and where the flowers will be displayed.
- Flag allergies, disliked flowers, and colors to avoid.
- Bring photos as inspiration and point to what you like about them.
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